Thoughts that most likely lead to nowhere but aren't unthought

Issues of cheating........... In regards to relationships, what is in a person's relational and sexual history? What is made to be made out of it? This blog is for those who actually care about and value their relationships..... Could a person be considered to be too obsessed to have to thoroughly know the history? How far do some limits go with some people in how much a history should matter? ..... What really matters the most is the choice actions in a present relationship, I would say. How much good would it do to find out about the history or be left to have some wonder in mystery? Sometimes, it seems there is more of a chance in mystery. There are less barriers and bondages in the way to be more free in the relationship. Sometimes, it is what a person does know that keeps the barriers and bondages up. Some people do cheat themselves out and intentionally cheat themselves out and it will never matter the things that they will never know. When a person does understand the consequences of a fool; there is a better understanding in the timing a person cheats their self out of the things they will never know. It depends on how safe or reckless a person is. Maybe a person could convince the other that they could take their words seriously at face value. Then, there are really times a person will never know...... It is also important for a person to not be naïve. They sometimes either ruin their own sexual reputation in being too arrogant, or they are a danger to their self to give their self too much hope. But how about the devil's advocate where a person's jealousy and insecurity can ruin it too? It depends on how far a person's violence can go. Sometimes, a jealous person doesn't always understand the more vulnerable person they make of their self when some people would want to consume and take advantage of their jealousy. ..... How could some people ever want to be a juvenile and ruin the better game of love by being too much of a Tom Fool jokester? ........ Some people have certain strengths and weaknesses. As much as I can either get lied about, picked on, and/or considered too "easy," I strongly believe in SELF CONTROL. When a person does make a choice to be in a relationship or commitment, the term of self control has always been a most seriously existent term. I still don't understand the purpose of elopement. Some wealthy or famous or even unwealthy and unfamous could do it for their own survival or fan base (dead giveaways for the fan base). I hear that Elvis was an eloper and had a couple of elopements. Johnny Cash proposed to his Junebug in front of their entire audience in a concert and proposed after that, audience or no audience. There is such a serious stress in elopement. If the woman is left alone too much, how could she know he isn't a polygamous eloper? Or, even if she wasn't the one who was left alone and waiting??? There is still a polygamous wonder......... Who were some men ever trying to kid when they wanted to force a woman in a relationship if the woman knew she was never going to come first? It's so sadistic to have any expectation to make a woman stay. To some cold-blooded heartless prostitutes, it wouldn't matter. However, when it is a man that the woman knows she loves, she could only be bound to fall out of love with him either in a snap of a finger or her own time. Some men have just never understood what was in their cold blooded selfish piggishness and the way they do lose their attraction. This is in my own personal thoughts and opinions anyway. .... How much does history matter? How much can a person be convinced that they are the one and only and especially the number one and put first? History or no history, Information or no information? What truth is there in the present?